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3 Reasons Men Go Absolutely CRAZY For Big, Beautiful Plus-Size Women

 

Told you that I’ve been writing for a number of years now ūüôā

This article is a reprint of a very popular one I wrote for YourTango.com two years ago. It gained a lot of notice, and I actually gained a number of new, dear friends from the publishing of this piece. You can read it below:

 

Curves, curves, and more curves.

I’m a young, good looking (I’ve been told this, by women¬†and¬†men), college educated, employed man.¬†And I just so happen to have a¬†preference for plus-size women.

Now, I’m betting I’m getting reactions from two “sectors” of readers. The first sector is saying,¬†“So, you think you deserve a medal¬†because you like big women? That’s not something you’re¬†supposed to brag about. You’re actually fat-shaming these by declaring your love for them.”

The second sector is saying,¬†“You like fat women … so what? Why write about that?”

For those in the first aisle of bleachers, I decided to write about my adoration of curvy women because there may be more than a few of them out there¬†who don’t know that there are attractive men who want to date them, or lust after them …¬†or¬†marry them.

In a perfect world, I wouldn’t have had to write this article. Women of size wouldn’t be treated differently than their thin counterparts. But¬†we live in an imperfect, unfair existence, and shapely women sometimes don’t get the public fawning that smaller women do. It may not be the¬†experience of¬†every¬†plus-size girl, but it is for far too many.

For those of you of the second opinion, my intent isn’t to waste your time. I don’t want to interrupt you¬†watching another¬†World¬†Star¬†video on Facebook. But I figure¬†if I tell you about the kind of women that drive me crazy (in a good way), then maybe it will inspire someone else to share an account of what makes their heart skip a beat.

And¬†I can’t lie, there’s a little buccaneer spirit behind the creation of this article. Maybe my crazy story might spark discussion on social media. The very¬†concept¬†of¬†beauty¬†could be dissected and deconstructed!

I doubt that this piece will cause that kind of action, but¬†I do feel it’s important that a man comes out and says, loudly, that he digs¬†BBWs (Big Beautiful Women). But what is it about plus-size ladies that turns me on? Let me count way the ways…

  1. They’re confident and comfortable in their own skin.

Many¬†plus-size women have natural confidence, much like their thinner counterparts, but¬†many bigger women may not. These women usually develop confidence over time, and it’s hard-earned confidence.

Unfortunately, a large number of curvy women may have had to go through abuse (mental, and possibly physical)¬†and ridicule in their younger, and even¬†adult¬†years. That’s beyond sad¬†but¬†what‚Äôs¬†actually¬†wonderful about this sh*tty treatment¬†is that once these ladies get through it, brush themselves off, and thrive, they end up possessing an air of confidence that’s regal, special, and magical.

And it’s¬†really¬†f*cking¬†sexy. Ever seen¬†a curvy queen stroll through a party, and slay, effortlessly? I have¬†‚ÄĒ¬†and it’s¬†hot. I totally respect it. It’s¬†earned confidence that also doubles as a victory lap for a woman who’s determined to win at life.¬†And I can’t get enough.

  1. Their curves are super-hot.

Curves, curves, and more curves do it for me. There’s something about a shapely figure, individual style, and again, confidence, that drives me wild. Not that¬†I don’t¬†notice thin women. I do. I have. Full disclosure:¬†I’ve¬†dated thin women in my time, but¬†my¬†preference is BBW.

  1. Their butts areto die for.

Seriously. ‚ÄčI’m a lifelong butt¬†man. Smaller women can have nice fannies, but no one does junk in the trunk like plus-size women. If a guy doesn’t turn his head when a hot BBW walks past wearing leggings, he’s blind. Or gay. Or crazy. He’s not one of my homeboys.

Plus-size women rock and I want everyone to know.

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